Surviving the monsters-in-law part TOO MUCH!

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We broached the subject of surviving your in-laws two weeks ago in our weekly blog. Since, we have had an enormous response to that blog. One reader told us, "This blog was great if you have "normal" issues with your in-laws, but what if you really have MONSTERS for in-laws, what then...HELP!"

My first piece of advice is to seek professional guidance through a therapist or clergyman. Even if you are the only one going, it may be all the relief you need to cope. And, since I am not a therapist myself, it's very hard to advise the many of you that seem to be experiencing sincere MONSTER in-law issues. There is one thing I know from my own life experiences, and that is, the only person you can control is YOU. If your in-laws are impossible, simply do your best to not engage in the behavior that is enraging you.

Sometimes the best thing for misery is company. We all need to know we aren't alone. And, you aren't. One way to try and capture some relief is to turn on the TV and watch A&E Television's Monster In-Laws series. Many nuptials just like you are going trough similar experiences. This reality drama may help shed some light on your own situation. In fact, the show has enlisted two pros, Mel Robbins & Tom Kersting to help people just like you figure out how to deal with MONSTER In-Laws on a daily basis. And, if you so choose you can apply to participate in the show. If you can answer YES to any of the following questions, you may just want to explore an appearance by contacting Kristen Phelan (casting.kristen@gmail.com).

Are you struggling to maintain a relationship with an out-of-control in-law?

-Is a cultural or background divide challenging your relationship?

-Does the statement, “When mom/dad says no, ask grandma/grandpa” ring true in your family?

-Does your mother or father-in-law still baby your husband/wife, challenge your parenting style or openly disrespect you?

We wish you the best on this journey and always!

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