Q: I got out of a relationship eight months ago. I started dating and found a girl I have strong feelings for. When I invited her out to meet my friends, she paused, then told me she really doesn't want a full-on relationship. She said I was really fun to hang out with, and she just wanted to keep doing that. She got out of a relationship only two months ago. I'm going along with this, hoping in time she'll warm up to the idea.
Mia: I'm confused. What kind of guy doesn't like commitment-free fun?
Steve: She sounds pretty savvy. The first post-breakup relationship almost always fails. By not investing emotionally, she's just playing the odds. Don't push her; just let it ride. Sometimes a long shot pays off.










