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Take it slow with new relationship

Steve and Mia
Steve is a 50-something married man who's been around the block. Mia is a 20-something single immersed in the Center City dating scene. They may not agree, but they have plenty of answers. If you'd like an answer to your romantic troubles, e-mail them at S&M@phillynews.com or write: S&M c/o Daily News, Box 7788, Philadelphia, PA 19101.

Q: I got out of a relationship eight months ago. I started dating and found a girl I have strong feelings for. When I invited her out to meet my friends, she paused, then told me she really doesn't want a full-on relationship. She said I was really fun to hang out with, and she just wanted to keep doing that. She got out of a relationship only two months ago. I'm going along with this, hoping in time she'll warm up to the idea.

Mia: I'm confused. What kind of guy doesn't like commitment-free fun?

Steve: She sounds pretty savvy. The first post-breakup relationship almost always fails. By not investing emotionally, she's just playing the odds. Don't push her; just let it ride. Sometimes a long shot pays off.

S&M@phillynews.com

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