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We understand their loss, parents of homicide victims say

Support group for loved ones of homicide victims holds vigil on CMPD station steps

By Cleve R. Wootson Jr.
cwootson@charlotteobserver.com
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Robert Lahser - rlahser@charlotteobserver.com
Vigil members CMPD sargents Angela Haywood (left), Lee Ann Oehler (right), cup their candles with their hands to keep the wind from blowing them out at the candle light vigil organized by the CMPD Homicide Support Group to stand in solidarity and honor the 26 victims of the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting in Newtown, CT. The CMPD invited the public to join in the vigil, held on the front steps of the CMPD Law Enforcement Center on Monday Dec. 17,2012. Robert Lahser - rlahser@charlotteobserver.com

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Their message to families more than 700 miles away was clear: We grieve with you.

A support group – made of people whose loved ones have been killed in the Charlotte area – gathered in front of police headquarters Monday night to mourn the shooting victims in Newtown, Conn.

About 80 people passed a flame from candle to candle. They prayed or sang along to “Amazing Grace.” And they reflected on the massacre that has saddened people across the nation – and is especially potent for others whose loved ones have been murdered.

Organizers placed 26 white paper bags with the pictures of the victims on the steps of the police station.

“Until you have crossed this bridge, you don’t understand what that day feels like,” said Robbie Harrison, whose only son, Tramell, was killed 23 years ago.

“Everyday is a gift,” she told the crowd, which included police officers and weeping relatives of homicide victims dating back decades. “Have you hugged a child today? If not, do so.”

The gathering, organized by the CMPD Homicide Support group, was one of the area’s largest memorials after the shootings of mostly 6- and 7-year-olds on Friday.

Police say 20-year-old Adam Lanza broke into the elementary school and opened fire on two classes full of first-graders.

“Grief is hard for everyone,” said James McGill, whose son, Jaron, was gunned down in Charlotte in 2009. “But when it’s the death of a child, it’s especially hard. We’re supposed to protect our children. We’re supposed to keep them safe.”

Wootson: 704-358-5046; Twitter: @CleveWootson

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