Comfort food for the soul

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I’ve always been optimistic and usually I’m the one that reminds Robert our future will get better. However, the last two years have been tough for us and there are days my belief system falters. Those are the days I appreciate and value my marriage the most. Having spent six years together, Robert knows and understands me. When I come home with mascara running down my face and absolutely no hope that a silver lining exists, Robert reminds me that it does.

I know we aren’t the only couple who suffers from financial instability. I started this blog because I wanted to share our story and hear stories from other couples as well. Now as Robert and I go through yet another turbulent period in our lives, I’m reminded that the best part of a rocky situation is having each other.

Earlier this year, I applied for a promotion and didn’t get it. Looking back on it now, I’m still surviving and I know that other opportunities will come along. However, I was devastated at the time. I’ve applied for so many positions that could change our financial situation and it hasn’t worked out yet. On top of that, we got terrifying news about our tax return, which compromised our ability to take our week-long Disney vacation. It was a tough day and I wasn’t prepared for it. I don’t cry very often, but I spent the entire drive home crying on the phone with Robert. The best part was he said everything I needed to hear, and by the time I got home, I felt better. Sure I still drowned my sorrows in chocolate and re-runs of “The Big Bang Theory,” but it was hubby that comforted me that day.

That’s the wonderful thing about marriage, even the tough times can be cherished memories. Those are the moments where you realize just how strong your love for one another is. No matter how much we struggle, I wouldn’t change those moments for the world. In years to come, we’ll look back on these days and marvel at the strides we’ve made together. As Walt Disney would say, “all the adversity I've had in my life, all my troubles and obstacles, have strengthened me... You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you.”

I know that if I have hubby by my side, I can handle a few more kicks.

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