BOSTON The photo of a stunned, bloodied woman in a shredded red shirt went viral after the Boston Marathon bombings and became a symbol of the citys horror and shock. On Friday, the woman in the photo Nicole Gross of Charlotte was released from Brigham and Womens Hospital after spending three and a half weeks recovering from serious leg injuries and damage to her ear drums.
Sitting with her husband, Michael, in her hospital room, Gross was a different person than the one in the photo.
We were fortunate to experience Patriots Day, and the energy surrounding the event was amazing, said Gross, 31. It ended in tragedy, but it doesnt take away the beauty that we saw.
On April 15, the couple were standing near the finish line with Nicoles sister Erica Brannock, waiting for the womens mother to finish her first Boston Marathon. Brannock lost her left leg below the knee in the blast and remains hospitalized.
Michael Gross, who was taking photos, was hospitalized overnight for scrapes, burns, and lacerations to his arms. In fact, another piece of asphalt fell out today, he said with a slight smile.
Wearing a mint-green sweatshirt and knee-length pants that reveal heavily bandaged and stitched legs, Gross sat with her arm linked through her husbands. They both wore Boston Strong and Brigham and Womens Strong bracelets.
Her husband, who spent every night in a chair next to her bed, reminded her to keep her legs elevated. She suffered compound breaks in both of them, a nearly severed Achilles tendon, and some hearing loss.
I have to relearn how to walk, said Gross, who was taken directly from the Brigham to Spaulding Rehabilitation Hospital in Charlestown, Mass. Ill put one step in front of the other, one day at a time.
A champion collegiate swimmer, triathlete, personal trainer and coach, Gross credits her fitness with her recovery. Her husband agrees. Its the mindset of a competitive athlete, he said. You spend many hours in very rigorous training, and thats how were approaching this (recovery) as well. Its another hurdle to jump over.
His wife nodded. Another marathon.
Michael Gross, who will be 33 on Sunday, is the general manager of the Charlotte Athletic Club, where Nicole is a personal trainer. In 2010, she did the Ironman Triathlon in Hawaii swam 2.4 miles, rode 112 miles, ran 26.2 miles with a stress fracture. She was one of the top finishers in her age group.
Though they didnt want to talk about the bombings, the couple spoke of how their lives have been changed.
I want people to know that despite the tragic situation, theres been a positivity that has come from all of this, Nicole said. A new life path has been given us, and were going to be moving forward with a lot of momentum.
My level of activity will be much more limited, my job as a fitness trainer will be affected.
Both spoke glowingly of Boston and its people, who have sent them bags of cards and letters, including some from schoolchildren. Weve seen the true spirit of Boston, Michael said, and its fantastic.
Theyve also received lots of support from friends, clients, and strangers in Charlotte, who started a fundraising drive for them (bestrongstaystrong.net). Cadie Jessup hired Nicole as her swim coach after she lost her left leg in 2009 to complications from a blood clot.
Nicole just took me under her wing and made me feel comfortable and I got my confidence back, said Jessup, who works at Wells Fargo in Charlotte. She believed in me when many people didnt.
Gross coached Jessup through her first triathlon, seven months after getting her prosthetic leg.
Just after the bombing, Gross, from her hospital bed, had a favor to ask her client. Would Jessup, who had done so well after losing a leg, meet with Nicoles sister, who had just lost hers?
That connection with Cadie is definitely meaningful for me, Gross said Friday. Its something I can use as a way to help my sister get back. She has a long road ahead of her.
Erica Brannock, 29, is a preschool teacher in suburban Baltimore.
The sisters, in different Boston hospitals, nonetheless have spoken to each other by telephone most days.
FaceTime is a beautiful thing, said Gross. My sister is amazing. Shes so strong. She helps me get through my dark times.
Both of them, she said, are proud of their mother, Carol Downing, who was blocks from the finish line when the bombs went off.
At 57, to qualify for Boston, thats pretty outstanding, said Nicole, who was her mothers marathon coach.
Despite what happened at their first Boston Marathon, Michael and Nicole Gross remain huge fans and hope to return for another. Over the years, theyve traveled to dozens of races and marathons, none of them quite like Boston.
Nothing matches what this city does, said Michael. Its a big party. Nothing else compares to the spirit and the support the runners receive. The Boston Marathon is just amazing.
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