Two moms are better than one in NASCAR
As the saying goes, sometimes two heads are better than one. In the case of NASCAR on FOX on-air reporters and mothers Wendy Venturini and Krista Voda, each traveling the grueling NASCAR racing circuit week to week with their husbands and children, two moms definitely are better than one.
So, the women tag team to babysit each others child in their respective motorhomes at the race track while the other is on the air. As they prepare to stay home in NASCARs background for two weeks beginning with Saturdays NASCAR SPRINT ALL-STAR RACE at Charlotte Motor Speedway (coverage beginning at 7:00 PM ET on FOX Sports 1), they do so with a greater appreciation for fellow working mothers than they had before Voda joined Venturini in the mommy club.
When Venturinis son, Caleb, was born three years ago, she and her husband, Jarrad Egert, became the only couple working fulltime in NASCAR to travel with a child each week. They now share that privilege with Voda and Phil PK Kelley, whose daughter, Emersyn (Emmy), was born last August. Venturini and Voda now are more than colleagues -- theyre each others babysitter and closest confidante on the road while mom and dad both are in the garage area working long shifts for 38-plus weeks each year.
Taking and raising your family on the road in NASCAR takes a village because its difficult to keep your family as a unit when youre in a different city every week, said Venturini, a Concord resident whose husband works for Toyota Racing Development as the EFI engineer for Matt Kenseths No. 20 team. Opening our home on wheels to Krista and her husband is our way of paying forward what another family did for us because of the impact they had on our family.
Unsolicited, Venturini approached Voda a few months before her due date to offer her assistance with childcare. Venturini considered her gesture as repayment of the enormous favor that Jami McDowell, NASCAR SPRINT CUP SERIES driver Michael McDowells wife, bestowed upon her beginning when Caleb was an infant. Jami offered to care for Caleb at the race track while Venturini was on the air for NASCAR on FOX, and the two women and their families soon became close friends.
Simply put, Wendy is my go-to person when it comes to parenthood questions on the road, said Voda, whose husband also works in network television, on the technical and production side of the camera. And she always answers my midnight texts about everything from the next days schedule to the best way to get baby vomit off your shirt 20 minutes before going on-air.
The women, while NASCAR on FOX colleagues for years, didnt know each other all that well before Vodas pregnancy last spring and summer, but soon formed an unbreakable bond.
We always had a working relationship, but when Krista got pregnant, she confided in me although she hadnt told many people yet, Venturini recalled. I was able to answer her questions about the RF packs reporters wear around their waists. Out of necessity, pregnant women wear them as a backpack instead. I also had some tips about keeping the camera on your face when youre trying to keep it a secret.
In turn, Venturini and Voda got to know each other more with each passing month in Vodas pregnancy, as she picked Venturinis brain on everything from pregnancy to what toys and baby items travel well on a plane.
Anytime she has a parenting question or one about life on the road with a baby, I can help because Ive been there, Venturini said. Your childs first sickness on the road is frightening because youre not in the comfort of your own home and doctors. Ive also left my kid sick with another mom with the fear of getting her kids sick. Thats a tough challenge of being a mom fulltime on the road in the industry.
For her part, Voda worries she hasnt yet pulled her weight with babysitting duties in the 2014 NASCAR season as her on-air schedule has been more rigorous than Venturinis thus far. But when June rolls around and the NASCAR on FOX broadcast of the NASCAR SPRINT CUP SERIES concludes for the year, Voda turns her attention to hosting FOX Sports 1s coverage of the NASCAR CAMPING WORLD TRUCK SERIES, which entails a less arduous schedule. On the flip side, Venturinis on-air assignments then kick into high gear each weekend.
At this point, I feel l only provide comedic relief for Wendy, joked Voda, who lived in Charlotte for several years before moving to Pittsburgh. She looks at me running around with my hair on fire, and I remind her of when Caleb was little, worrying about how she was going to get to a production meeting with a baby and so forth. I owe her so many more babysitting shifts than she owes me, and I am looking forward to paying her back.
In fact, the women will even share babysitting resources one evening this week while in Charlotte, hiring a babysitter to watch their children at Venturinis home while they attend an industry event, not to mention pitching in to help each other at the motorhome at the race track during the two weekends.
Voda, who turns 40 at the end of the month, quickly points out that her only true frustration with being a mom on the road is juggling her breast-pumping schedule in between TV shows and lugging the not-so-subtle cooler of breast milk through the airport every week.
Im a little older than the average first-time mom, but I wasnt ready earlier in life because I was so focused on my career, she explained. But I look at her now and think, I could totally do this again! My energy is fine. The hardest part is the breastfeeding because pumping can be exhausting on the road. Ive been in every disgusting airport bathroom. When I worked a Supercross race, I was in some dark, damp, dungeon of a room in the bowels of Angels Stadium plugged into the wall to pump.
Both women are quick to point out, though, that all working mothers face their own set of challenges in balancing work and home, so they really arent all that different.
Everyone with a child must jump through various hoops to find childcare, and they make it work, Voda pointed out. Our situation might differ logistically -- I stand in the airport security line instead of the carpool lane every week, and my babys ticket says TSA pre-check -- but all working moms have their own set of circumstances. Bottom line -- we know how blessed we are. We get to take our baby with us, and we know most moms aren't that lucky. Of course, when I do have to leave Emmy at home, I'm in a different state and time zone, so that's when the sacrifice is the hardest. But, overall, I know how lucky I am.
There is a group of us I call the August Birth Club because a handful of others in the sport, including some of the crew guys wives, and I had babies within a couple of weeks of each other, so we compare notes and light up when talking about our children, Voda continued. I know how fortunate I am that Emmy gets to come with me whereas most of the crew members children do not.
While their jobs and travel challenges are similar, both declare their parenting styles couldnt be more different.
My husband and I are a lot more laidback and less structured than Krista and PK are at this point, but I was that way when Caleb was a baby, Venturini said. But when Speedweeks rolled around at Daytona for my first time as a mom, I barely had enough time to get a shower, brush my teeth and get on TV, so all organization went down the drain. A crazy schedule on the road forces you to roll with it, especially when theres a camera in your face and people expect to see a smiling person, not a sleep-deprived, stressed-out one.
Wendy thinks Im organized because I track Emmys feedings, diaper changes and schedule in a notebook, mainly to help others who are caring for her, Voda said. But Wendy seems to truly have it all together. I always look at her and say, Of course Wendy remembered to pack that! Im the mom who comes flying into a room with the baby on the hip and diaper bag dragging behind with its contents falling out everywhere. Seriously, I once found my (empty) breast milk cooler lying in the Martinsville parking lot!
I saw her from my window running in the parking lot to grab it with Emmy on her hip, Venturini added. I swung open my door to let her know Ive done worse! Its just a normal new-mom thing. I left my son's favorite stuffed animal at airport security at Chicago O'Hare Airport one time and didn't realize it until we were on the plane. I felt like the worst mom, but I called O'Hare and TSA had it. They shipped it back to me free of charge!"
While the cities may vary, both women are grateful the friendly face greeting her child is familiar, but they point out their unique arrangement puts them in the minority.
Our childcare situation is extremely rare in on-air sports, Venturini stated. We are the only NASCAR reporters who make childcare work like we do, but Im pretty sure this system doesnt exist with network reporters in other sports, either. Our close relationship is a bit unusual in television as a whole because many folks in the mainstream TV industry dont go out of their way to help each other. But for Krista and me, theres nothing we wouldnt do for each other.
Just ask their children
Note: You can watch Venturini and Voda on FOX Sports 1 this weekend, as the network airs live coverage of the NASCAR SPRINT ALL-STAR RACE beginning at 7:00 PM ET on Saturday, May 17, preceded on Friday by practice and qualifying sessions. For a complete FOX Sports 1 10 Days of Thunder programming schedule, click http://foxs.pt/1mwsvDm .
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