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Senior center helps woman meet folks, adjust to new life

Amy Baldwin
Amy Baldwin writes about Charlotte-area newcomers in her New Around Town blog and Living Here columns in the Observer. She also is editor of the annual Living Here magazine. She grew up in suburban Dayton, Ohio, but was a newcomer in three other places - Birmingham, Ala.; Lexington, Ky.; and New York City - before moving to Charlotte in 2003. She likes barbecue, preferably pulled pork, but passes on sweet tea. Her favorite college basketball team is still to be determined.

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  • Gaston County

    Gaston County Senior Center, 1303 Dallas-Cherryville Highway, Dallas, 704-922-2170

    Iredell County

    Iredell Senior Center, 344 E. Front St., Statesville, 704-873-8568

    South Iredell Senior Center, 202 N. Church St., Mooresville, 704-662-3337

    Lincoln County

    Lincoln County Senior Center, 514 S. Academy St., Lincolnton, 704-732-9053

    Mecklenburg County

    Charlotte-Mecklenburg Senior Centers Inc., 2225 Tyvola Road, Charlotte, 704-522-6222

    Levine Senior Center, 1050 Devore Lane, Matthews, 704-846-4654

    Mecklenburg Oasis Senior Enrichment Program at Levine Jewish Community Center of Charlotte, 5007 Providence Road, 704-944-6735

    Shamrock Senior Center of Charlotte-Mecklenburg Senior Centers Inc., 3925 Willard Farrow Drive, Charlotte, 704-531-6900

    Rowan County

    Rufty-Holmes Senior Center, 1120 Martin Luther King Blvd., Salisbury, 704-216-7714

    Union County

    Ellen Fitzgerald Senior Center, 327 S. Hayne St., Monroe, 704-282-4657

    York County, S.C.

    Catawba Indian Nation Senior Center, 985 Avenue of the Nations, Rock Hill, 803-328-2208

    York County Council on Aging/ Rock Hill Senior Citizens Center, 917 Standard St., Rock Hill, 803-327-6694

Janet Carothers lived in Pittsburgh her entire life, raised four children there and saw eight grandchildren born there. And then in summer 2007, she left her city and family for a new life in the Charlotte area.

“I think sometimes you (as a family) get closer that way, amazingly enough,” said Janet, 64. “When they know you are right down the street … they take you for granted.”

She and husband, Jim, 66, a retired truck driver, settled in Mint Hill. They had never been to Charlotte. They started researching North Carolina after hearing that a friend of a friend liked living here. They wanted something different – and warmer. As Janet put it: Why wait six months every year for the weather to get nice?

Jim prefers to relax on his own – going out for coffee and sticking around the house. But Janet enjoys being with people and says she's made friends faster here than she did back home. She thinks that's because nearly everyone here seems to be a newcomer.

Janet joined the Levine Senior Center in Matthews right away. She started with yoga classes and then aerobics. And recently she joined a line dancing class. The line dancers are taking a break from their standard routines to practice a marching routine they will perform before a group of veterans next month.

Janet, who has an interior decorating business, also joined the Mint Hill Chamber of Commerce for networking.

Her advice to other newcomers: “Just get out there and meet people,” she said. “There's no reason to be lonely.”

Got a question or comment about Living Here? Let me hear it. abaldwin@ charlotteobserver.com, 704-358-5179.

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