You’ve got to find a way to quantify each of your stances and work toward a compromise. So he wants you in an office on Day One, you’re imagining Day 365, and then you go from there. Or he imagines you'll work full time, you’re thinking quarter time, and you go from there. Once you agree, quantify how you'll handle the job search, whether it’s in sums sent or time spent on LinkedIn versus Pinterest.
I think you’ve got to be honest with yourself about your motivations here. Are you just missing your ground beef, or are you put off by what you secretly consider to be frivolous or flighty behavior? Either perspective is understandable, but the latter might have serious implications for your compatibility, whereas the former might be a more realistic fix. If this is absolutely, truly, solely about food – no small thing, of course – then it looks like separate-takeout-consumed-together will be the Rule of the Day, or perhaps a hot, steamy affair with mall food courts.
Finally, I’d be remiss if I didn’t suggest trying out new recipes together.