Will your parents be passive objectors, or will they be in your face about it? Will it lead to one blowout or several? Work together on a post-announcement game plan that will meet your standards of genuineness but strive for the peace that’s important to him. This could be an important step in building your life together autonomously, authentically and as a united front.
Andrea Bonior is a psychologist and author of “The Friendship Fix.” www.drandreabonior.com