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Why do I have to find the babysitter?

I have a phone list full of babysitter names. My husband never uses it.

I'm always the one who has to find the babysitter. Dinner with friends? My job to get the childcare. I have book club, he wants to play basketball? I better get the sitter, or I stay home. I have a meeting and he's supposed to get home from work in time, but something comes up? Me again.

Even when he goes away on his guys weekend, I'm the one who has to find babysitting help if I need it. I do the same for him when I go on my girls weekends.

How did this happen? Why does the woman get stuck with this job more often than not?