5 things to stop wasting time on right now
Feeling the holidays-are-almost-here rush? Me too.
The enormous fake Christmas tree that is already up outside of Y2 Yoga at Cotswold is practically screaming at me to get going on my holiday shopping. Work is filled with its usual daily grind, plus the push to pull together 2018 plans and branding strategies. And Thanksgiving is next week, which means I’m torn between making a festive kale salad or warm Brussels sprouts salad to plunk down next to the family turkey.
The rush is a reminder to stop wasting time, when there’s little time to waste before it’s a whole new year.
Here are 5 things to stop wasting time on right now:
(1) Excuses
So you got invited to four different Friendsgivings, three happy hours and two birthday parties? Show up where you can and enjoy the places you do end up in. If you can’t make it to an outing, let the host know as soon as you can, for the sake of head count, and thank them for their invitation.
You don’t owe an excuse. You do owe a response.
(2) Flakiness
Nothing feels worse than getting excited to see someone you’ve made plans with, only to have that person flake out at the last minute and act like it’s no big deal. When you’re juggling a job (or two), a relationship and end-of-the-year stress, it’s time to focus on the people who show up for you.
Don’t forget to return the favor.
(3) Unnecessary meetings
If you’re slammed at work and all you want to do at the end of the day is have time for a nice fall cocktail, know what to say “no” to during the day. Meet with your boss, meet with your work team.
But recognize when a cup of coffee with someone who’s interested in learning more about your business or pitching you an idea might not benefit your productivity this week. Politely decline and opt for a quick phone call if needed.
[Related: 10 tips: How to cut the bullsh*t and sell your strongest self in business.]
(4) Indecision
Stop worrying so much about making the “right” choice and just make a choice. Whether it’s about that perfect gift, or the most epic side dish to bring, or just what to write in a card, pick something.
You have an instinct — trust it.
(5) Combatting negative feedback
Ah, look at Twitter or Facebook blow up with something you wrote or shared. Look at that fiery email sitting in your inbox from someone criticizing your product, or work approach. Take in criticism when it’s actually constructive, and adapt.
For less-than-helpful criticism, offer a “thank you for your feedback,” perhaps a quick explanation of your viewpoint, and move on.
It’s holiday season, friends. Our time is of the essence.
Photo: AP Photo/Elise Amendola
This story was originally published November 15, 2017 at 9:00 PM with the headline "5 things to stop wasting time on right now."