Moms Are Skipping This Longtime Mother's Day Tradition-Here's What They Actually Want This Year
Mother's Day is supposed to feel easy, thoughtful and special. Every year, families try to find ways to show appreciation, whether that means planning a meal, picking out gifts or setting up a surprise at home. But as Mother's Day approaches again in 2026, one long-running tradition is losing its appeal among many moms across the country.
Instead of sticking with the same old routine, more families are rethinking how they celebrate Mother's Day and focusing on what moms actually enjoy. And according to recent trends, what moms want may be simpler than expected.
Why This Mother's Day Tradition Is Falling Out of Favor
For years, one of the most common Mother's Day ideas has been serving breakfast in bed. It is often seen as a sweet gesture meant to let moms relax and feel appreciated. However, many moms say the experience does not always match the intention.
One of the biggest complaints about this Mother's Day tradition is the mess it creates. Crumbs in bed, spilled drinks, and food trays that are difficult to balance can turn a relaxing moment into extra cleanup later. Instead of feeling pampered, some moms end up dealing with more chores once the surprise is over.
What Moms Say They Actually Want for Mother's Day
When it comes to Mother's Day plans, many moms are leaning toward experiences that feel more relaxing and low effort. New data from OpenTable's 2026 Mother's Day report shows just how strong that shift has become.
According to the OpenTable research, 42 percent of moms and mom figures say they would rather go out to eat with their family on Mother's Day than receive breakfast in bed. That compares to just 4 percent who prefer breakfast in bed.
The report also found that 62 percent of Americans say dining out is an important part of Mother's Day celebrations, showing that the trend is not limited to moms alone. Families are increasingly choosing restaurant reservations over home-cooked surprises to make the day feel easier and more enjoyable for everyone.
Overall, the data points to a clear change in Mother's Day expectations. Instead of at-home traditions that can come with stress or cleanup, many moms are choosing experiences that let them spend time with family while skipping the work that usually comes with hosting.
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This story was originally published April 26, 2026 at 7:25 AM.