At what age is it OK to leave your child at home alone? Here’s what NC law says
School is officially out for students, which means parents and guardians will have to find a way to keep their kids busy for the next few months.
Summer camps and other childcare programs are always an option, but state law is relatively lax about kids being allowed to stay home alone.
Still, there are some regulations in place to be aware of. And experts say it’s important to think through whether your child is ready to be home alone and to make sure they’re prepared to care for themselves without adult supervision.
Here’s what to know about laws on leaving kids home alone in North Carolina, and how to make sure your child is safe without adult supervision:
At what age can you leave a child home alone in North Carolina?
There are no laws in North Carolina on what age children can be left at home alone.
The only rule on the books related to an age range for kids left home alone is the state fire code, which says kids 8 years old or younger shouldn’t be left unsupervised.
When are kids ready to be left home alone?
Experts say 11 or 12 years old is an appropriate age for children to stay home alone, but there are a number of factors to consider before letting your child do it, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics:
Age: Do you think your child is old and mature enough to take care of themselves?
Caution: Does your child think before they act?
Comfort: Would your child be comfortable left alone?
Common sense: Would your child be able to make good judgments on their own?
Interests: Can your child keep busy without relying on television or video games?
Safety: Would your child remember and be able to follow important safety rules?
“Once you have decided that your child is ready to take on this new responsibility, take some time to plan and talk as a family to ensure a successful experience,” the AAP says. “First, gather information that your child may need while you’re gone.”
How to prepare kids for staying home alone
If your child is going to be alone, it’s important to set clear rules and expectations with them, the state Department of Public Safety says.
Here are some guidelines to follow when leaving your child home alone, according to NCDPS:
Make sure your child doesn’t have access to poisons, alcohol, firearms or any other items that could pose a threat.
Go over fire escape plans and other emergency plans.
Make sure your child knows how to call 911.
Make sure your child knows their address and phone number.
Have a list of phone numbers including how to contact the parent or guardian, doctor, other relatives and trusted individuals.
Check-in with your child while away.
Leave your child with a first-aid kit.
Teach children staying alone to never to open the door to a stranger or let them know there is no adult in the house.
Make sure your child knows not to have friends over.
Keep doors and windows locked.
Don’t let your child use heat appliances, such as ovens and toasters, while you’re away.
This story was originally published June 10, 2024 at 10:20 AM.
